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Sunday, April 3, 2011

Why is it so painful is the man Boobs?

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The men try to hide their pain about having man boobs (Gynecomastia). They suffer in silence, sometimes no one tells you. They pretend that its jokes do not bother them. But deep down ... it really bother them. A Lot!

If you have a man boobs, first I want to impress upon you that you are not alone in feeling the pain over the facts. Don't think, just because you see does not take the trouble to other men that it will not bother you. They are likely to be only pretending, it does not bother them in the same way as. Remember that the men do not usually talk about these issues will be sorted with other men.

I found a Close male friend of mine actually prefer to speak to me, a woman, as well as their closest male friends, these sorts of questions. What I learned is that the men who suffer with man boobs, usually occurs in a lot of emotional pain.

This pain occurs in 3 main areas:

First, they take a teasing, hellittämätöntä that they feel like casually, they have fun when they actually have pahoinvoivia down deep inside. Outwardly they laugh, but inside it really burn a hole in their psyche. Many of the men to avoid situations that place them in the other men, who see them in the context of the shirtless. They avoid the safety belt, just because they think that their favorite t-shirt shows the man boobs. Family members often join hellittämätöntä teasing. This normally occurs more than anything else. Nobody wants to hear that their father, their uncle or brother. Is at the very least depressing. You are not alone, if this happens to you.

Secondly, they generally negative reactions from some inconvenience to their chest for women. Although women are Nice about it (and usually are), the eyes of a woman for men to see it, his tone and his body language. This hurts even more than when they poke fun of men. Many of the men and women to avoid completely, so that they do not have to endure this pain. They pass through the golden opportunities to date. They lost the confidence to ask a woman out. Just think, colleagues and acquaintances, they are shy. Little they know they are so carefully hide the pain.

Thirdly, they tried all kinds of things to make them disappear, man boobs, but nothing seemed to work. Mostly they try chest exercises. They try to lose weight. They do not understand that the man boobs do not have any extra building up muscle mass, or more. They try, they read about herbal remedies. Often times, they actually end up making the situation worse, they get more depressed about than ever before. Sometimes they just give up and is different from the fact that they are going to have the man at the end of the life cycle of their boobs.

All this pain is very real, as I have seen it as well my friend finally entrusted to me and open enough to talk about it.

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